Top 5 Networking Tips For Job Seekers

Top 5 Networking Tips For Job Seekers
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By Jeff Gillis

Being skilled at your job, having the right qualifications and work experience and having a finely tuned cover letter and resume are all excellent tools to have in your job seeking tool box, but there’s one tool that too often gets overlooked…networking to find a job.

How many times have you heard the phrase, “It’s not what you know…it’s who you know.”?

When it comes to job seeking, knowing the right people and leveraging those relationships responsibly through networking can make your job seeking quest infinitely easier.

Knowing someone who knows someone else can help move your finely tuned cover letter and resume out of the massive computer sorted “submission” pile and into the hands of the hiring manager, which in turn can help transform you from job seeker to gainfully employed.

Proper networking can also mean hearing ahead of time that a department is hiring, or that a job you’ve been angling for is opening up…even before the listing is posted! In many cases, solid industry connections are just as important in the quest for a new job as the skills and knowledge you bring to the table.

But what exactly is job networking?


In a nutshell, it’s about making genuine contacts and building long term relationships with other people who can either help you directly or connect you with others who can.

Often these relationships can lead to future jobs and opportunities that might not otherwise present themselves.

Solid networking can lead to things like referrals, advice, connections, and professional support.

Of course, in order to use networking in your job search, you have to first build your network, and that starts with a little bit of homework and introspection.

Building a Job Search Network

To become a master of career networking, begin by first identifying what you ultimate employment goal is.

By knowing exactly what you’re looking for, you can begin identifying the people who can help make that a reality.

Keep in mind that your contact list is bigger than just the people you’ve worked with in the past or that you’re working with right now. Your list should include people from all across your social network as well as any groups or organizations you socialize with both personally and professionally.

Good places to look for potential networking contacts include:

  • Groups you play sports with or clubs you belong to.
  • Classmates.
  • Social gatherings.
  • If you’ve graduated, look into your Alumni club.
  • Friends of friends (ask for referrals or introductions).
  • Your church, synagogue or mosque.
  • Military organizations including veteran’s programs.
  • Neighbors.
  • Relatives.
  • Volunteer organizations you’ve worked with.
  • Professional organizations.

Of course, this is just a partial list. The possibilities for networking are almost endless and are limited only by your imagination and desire to reach out.

The next step is to start connecting with these people. When it comes to job searching, there are two ways you can do this…the softer more socially casual “informal” way and the more professional, structured “formal” way.

Informal Networking

With the informal way, you’re reaching out to your personal contacts and asking them for advice and help with your job search. This method is an excellent way to start out your job searching and can also be used to help build your network as the people you’re talking to might be able to further introduce you to others who can continue to help you as well.

The nice thing about informal networking is that it can be done in just about any situation. Casually mentioning to someone that you’re actively seeking employment and looking for any advice or help they might have can be a great way to start a conversation.

Formal Networking

The formal way of professional networking involves going to business specific social events, meetings or associations. Often there are others there who are also networking. Use this to your advantage by talking with others and exchanging business cards and contact information. If you’re not comfortable going to these events, you can also participate in formal networking online via job forums and career networking websites as well as social media platforms.

Regardless of what approach you take, the key to successful networking is to make sure that you treat all your networking contacts with genuine appreciation and professional respect.

Always thank them for all their help, both in person and with a follow up note, either handwritten or via email. For those contacts who asked you to keep them posted on your job searching success, be sure to do so and let them know how it’s going.

If you get a job, they’ll be happy to celebrate with you. If you’re still having trouble finding employment, a gentle reminder might spur them to provide more assistance or introduce you to a new contact.

Most importantly, make sure your networking road goes both ways. Always make yourself available as a potential resource for other members in your network when it’s their turn to look for employment or when they ask you for help.

5 Common Networking Mistakes

While properly executed networking might make your job searching easier, it’s also easy to make networking mistakes…and those could potentially make your job searching harder.

Make sure you avoid these five common networking mistakes:

1. Not networking now.

Networking is something you should be working on continuously, not just when you start your job search. Building your network means building solid relationships, and those take time.

By waiting until after you’re in a job seeking situation, you’re telling your network contacts that they’re only good to you when they can help you…which makes them less likely to want to help you at all.

Start cultivating your network before you need it. This gives you time to develop genuine relationships with people.

2. Not being patient.

In many ways, this goes hand in hand with not networking now. Aggressive networking where you expect immediate results can not only be frustrating for you, but can be a major turn off for the people in your professional network.

Rushing your networking can also make you appear desperate, another turn off for your contacts. Meaningful connections and genuine relationships will get you much further in the long run…but it takes time.

3. Not utilizing your network properly.

Job networking isn’t a skill everyone comes by naturally. It can seem awkward talking about your career and job search.

While it’s true that one sided conversations – where all you do is talk about yourself and how the person you’re talking to can help you – are horrible and don’t often work out well, you also don’t want to swing in the opposite direction and have a conversation with a great contact where all you do is make small talk about nothing really at all.

The key is to find a happy medium between discussing your career goals and not talking about yourself at all. All good conversations, like relationships, are about give and take.

4. Not thanking your contacts.

Always make sure you thank you contacts for their time and resources.

Start by ending any conversations with a genuine thank you and then follow up again with a note, either hand written or via email. The last thing you want your contacts to do is to feel as though you don’t value them.

Leaving a networking contact with a negative impression can not only cause you to lose that contact, but can have ripple effects if they tell others about you.

5. Not returning the favor.

This is another big no-no. Networking should never be a one way street.

At its core, networking is a give and take. Always be prepared to give back to your professional networking connections. Helping others in your network will make it more likely for people to remember you – and want to help you